This section is about operator=. It's rather strange that of all possible things, people only "frequently ask" about self assignment, but those are the only questions listed in the FAQ.
FAQ: It's assigning the object to itself, directly or indirectly. For example:
void f(C& x, C& y) { x=y; } void g(C& x) { f(x,x); }
FQA: The tricky part is that the assignment operator may be overloaded, and you are expected to overload it in the classes that "own" resources (most frequently memory obtained with new). Incidentally, these are exactly the cases when self assignment may lead to trouble, which is why we have the next question. Which will also show that the FAQ's definition of "self assignment" is unfortunately too conservative, as "self" is a vague concept.
FAQ: If you don't, your operator= will probably misbehave severely upon self-assignment:
YetAnotherSoCalledSmartPointer& YetAnotherSoCalledSmartPointer::operator=(const YetAnotherSoCalledSmartPointer& p) { delete _p; _p = new TheThingPointedByTheSmartPointer(*p._p); return *this; }
Self assignment will first delete _p, and then dereference it, which is nasty. And it is all your fault - you should have handled self assignment!
FQA: Oh, so it's my fault, isn't it? Then why isn't this question listed in any other programming language FAQ on the planet? I mean, it's the same me all the time, it's the languages that are different. So why don't we lose the feelings of guilt and check what it is about C++ that causes the problem?
Most languages daring to call themselves "object-oriented" have garbage collection, so you don't spend your time writing stupid functions for deallocating stuff, then copying stuff. These functions are all alike, but with C++ you get to write this kind of code over and over again.
C++ doesn't have garbage collection, so a problem arises - if people are creating all those objects, how are they going to dispose them, especially if they overload operators and do things like a+b+c, without even keeping the pointers to the temporary objects created when sub-expressions are evaluated? The C++ answer is to have an "owner" object for each chunk of allocated memory, and let operator= and the destructor worry about freeing the memory. The most common manifestation of this quite unique language design decision is unnecessary copying, which happens when objects are passed to functions or returned by value or "cut out" from larger data structures.
The self assignment problem is another manifestation of this same thing. If objects were passed by pointers/references and garbage-collected automatically, self assignment (setting the pointer to the value of itself) would be harmless. And the worst part is that there are actually more cases of self assignment than x=x. For example, consider std::vector::push_back(). What if someone passes an object from the vector itself, as in v.push_back(v.back())? push_back may need to allocate more memory, which may cause it to free the buffer it already uses, destroying its argument. Where does the "self" of an object end?
You have to be really smart to get all those smart pointer and container classes right. Too bad it's still worse than good containers built into a language.
FAQ: By adding a test like if(this==&that) { return *this; } or by copying the members of the input object before deallocating members of this.
FQA: This avoids the destruction of your function argument via self-destruction in operator=. However, there are other cases when that can happen - consider std::vector::push_back().
When performance is more important to you than simplicity & generality, one way to deal with this family of problems is to document them and pass them on to the user of your code ("it is illegal to push an element of a vector into that vector, if you need to do it, copy the element explicitly").
When simplicity & generality are more important than performance, you can use a language automatically tracking references to objects, guaranteeing that used objects won't get destroyed.